No Boyfriend No Problem
One would not be absolutely wrong if he or she says having a boyfriend is the initiation into adolescent. Boyfriend is also the major subject of discussion among teenagers and young youths. There have always been and will always be contradictions when it comes to the meaning of who a boyfriend is. Some have argued this, with respect to their own ideology without reference to the dictionary meaning.
Believe it or not boyfriends have played significant roles in the forming of our beliefs, likes, dislike, perceptions, lifestyles,emotions etc. lemme put it this way "Girls live For Guys". Prior to the boyfriend... You barely care about what you put on but now you are over conscious of your looks least he finds someone prettier; and the future wife/mother whose nightmare is kitchen, will just have to buckle up after all, the fastest way to a man's heart is food. Then the constant anxiety and worry "he supposed to have called by now...'' Fear of he might be with another woman. The battered faces and irrelevant sacrifice all in the name of love.
Priorities have shifted so soon and focus lost. You no longer care about your grades all you could think of is "Abeg let this guy do and propose na" What of those your dreams? You gave it all up for the one you love.
And suddenly, there was a change. He doesn't like you anymore, it was all infatuation, he can't marry you, you are not his type or let's say his family doesn't like you...HEARTBREAK...you want to kill yourself "I can never love anymore" Just like that? 'Live more life jare'. Then you shrink up like a roasted snail, HIV patients becomes the closest description of you... Ahnn!!! You even thought of suicide? Girl how far you na? NO BOYFRIEND NO HEARTBREAK NO BOYFRIEND NO PROBLEM.
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